Mischief, Music and Making A Difference
This week, Nathan Stalinga, the executive director for Dakotabilities, joined Vince and Jeff on the Nostalgia Street podcast. The conversation starts with an amusing inquiry from Vince about Nathan's alleged dislike for country music. Nathan clarifies that while country isn't his favorite genre, he appreciates music with meaningful stories beyond the typical truck and beer themes.
The discussion delves into Nathan's childhood in Sioux Falls, where he fondly reminisces about growing up in the "hilltop" neighborhood, filled with Sandlot-style adventures and neighborhood camaraderie. Vince, Jeff and Nathan shared anecdotes about mischief and neighborhood characters, including a humorous exchange about "Old Man Foster."
As the conversation shifts to Nathan's teenage years, he recounts a memorable incident involving a bike accident that left him with a separated shoulder, highlighting the innocence of youthful antics. Vince humorously probes Nathan about any nicknames, prompting Nathan to share his college nickname, "Sponge," which had nothing to do with drinking, contrary to assumptions.
The podcast delves into Nathan's musical preferences, including alternative rock bands like R.E.M. and U2. He emphasizes his appreciation for music that tells stories, citing artists like Tracy Chapman and Bruce Springsteen. The trio playfully speculates about how Springsteen might sound if he ventured into country music.
Reflecting on his formative years, Nathan shares insights gained from personal tragedy, recounting the loss of his brother in a car accident on his 17th birthday. He discusses the importance of resilience and adopting a mindset of overcoming challenges rather than succumbing to victimhood.
The conversation transitions to Nathan's collegiate journey, marked by diverse academic pursuits and a degree in psychology. Nathan shares valuable lessons learned from psychology, emphasizing the importance of active listening and genuine human connection.
Nathan shares a story of an unexpected encounter with Stephen Tyler of Aerosmith during his stint as a security guard at a concert. Nathan's journey from security to his current role at Dakotabilities underscores the unpredictable trajectory of life and the significance of seizing opportunities for personal and professional growth.
Nathan shares the valuable work they do at Dakotabilities supporting adults with intellectual disabilities. He reflects on his early experiences working with troubled kids and transitioning to a more welcoming environment at Dakotabilities.
Nathan emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and respecting every individual, regardless of their abilities. He highlights the significance of simple gestures like saying hello and listening attentively, citing Kermit the Frog's quote: "It's nice to be important, but it's important to be nice."
Through their conversation, they explore the evolution of society's acceptance of individuals with disabilities and the role community support providers like Dakotabilities play in promoting inclusion and meaningful opportunities. Nathan's dedication to his work and the organization's mission shines through as they discuss future goals and the impact of their programs on the lives of those they serve.
Overall, the interview serves as a reminder of the power of kindness, respect, and inclusion in fostering a more compassionate and supportive community for individuals of all abilities.
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